A letter to the ones we miss — and the words we never said.

📩 Dear You (the one who’s still thinking about that friend),

You still remember them.
Maybe not every day — but often enough.
A memory. A song. A joke. An old photo.
And suddenly, there they are… in your mind.

But the contact is gone. The messages have stopped. The silence has lasted for years.

And here’s the strange part:

You didn’t fight.
There was no betrayal.
Just a misunderstanding.
And then… nothing.

😔 Most Friendships Don’t Die in Drama. They Die in Silence.

It happens slowly:

- A moment of hurt that wasn’t addressed
- A call that wasn’t returned
- An assumption that wasn’t cleared
- A growing distance that became permanent

And deep down, both people are thinking:

“If they really cared, they’d reach out.”

But what if both are thinking the same thing?
What if no one reaches out — not because they don’t care, but because they don’t know what to say anymore?

🧠 Why We Don’t Speak Up

- Because we don’t want to be the one who’s “too emotional”
- Because we’re afraid we’ll be misunderstood
- Because ego whispers, “Let them come first”
- Because we were never taught how to express hurt with honesty — without blame

So we stay silent.
And that silence becomes the tombstone of a once-beautiful friendship.

🧍‍♀️ I Know This Feeling Too Well

One of my students once told me:

*“I lost my best friend. Not because of something big — but because I couldn’t talk to him, ‘That hurt me.”*

He said they hadn’t spoken in 3 years.
He still missed them.
And in that moment, something hit me hard:

*Most relationships don’t need fixing. They just need a conversation that never happened.*

🎙️ Public Speaking Isn't Just for Stages. It's for Moments Like This.

When people think of speaking skills, they imagine microphones and audiences.

But the most powerful moments in life?
They happen in living rooms, cafés, long walks, and late-night phone calls.

And those moments require:
- Courage
- Clarity
- Vulnerability
- Presence

*All of which are learnable — not gifts you're born with.*

🧭 That’s Why We Built the Effective Communication Mastery System

Because we realized that communication is not about just about stage performance.
*It’s  also about preserving other beautiful things that matters.*

Inside, we help people:
- Express hurt without sounding angry
- Rebuild confidence to reach out
- Listen without interrupting or defending
- Apologize without shame
- Speak from the heart, not the ego

We’ve seen people reconnect with friends, partners, siblings — not because we fixed them…
*But because they found the words they needed.*

💌 If There’s Someone You Miss...

Maybe you don’t need to wait for them to text first.
Maybe it’s okay to say,

*“I miss our friendship. I’m not angry. I just wish we had talked.”*

That sentence alone can change everything.

Even if they don’t respond — you’ll know you tried.

With soft strength and open-hearted hope,

**Lokesh Rohilla**
*Founder, Bookwishes Club*

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